Friday Blog Challenge: Stop Annoying Your Readers

Yesterday I wrote an article on my personal blog titled I Hate Comment Auto Responders, it was a tongue in cheek piece about the new trend in using auto responders to thank your commenters for leaving a comment. While the tone was light I was serious about hating them, as were my readers.

If you are serious about blogging you want to do whatever you can to encourage your readers to come back time and time again. I don’t think comment auto responders encourage that, even discourage return visits, but it got me thinking about some of the other things we do, unknowingly, to turn off our readers.

Word Verification

Also known as Captcha. I’ve written about this infernal, spawn of the devil, practice before but it is worth repeating. Having to jump through hoops to leave a comment is the fastest way to not get comments. I’m easy going and I really want to leave comments so I will begrudgingly type in the word verification code but I know a lot of people who won’t. They simply move on. I’ll try it two times before I give up and leave, never to return. I have to try it several times because all word verification codes are different. Some are case sensitive, some are not. Some have several words that aren’t really words but look close enough to a real word that I spell it wrong (even though I am spelling the word the right way). Sometimes they are math problems. I don’t even attempt the math problem Captchas, not even once. Sometimes, if you get the word verification wrong you lose your comment and you have to start all over again. I might leave a comment but it’s not likely that I will be back to go through that hell again.

Bloggers who don’t use their real names

I’m all for having an alias and keeping your private information private but if you are hanging around the same bloggers and repeatedly leave comments or email the blogger or are even involved in some networks it is helpful to let some people know your real name. Using your real name is welcoming to your readers. I like to link to other bloggers because I love introducing my readers to some people they might not have met before. I want to introduce them to people not characters. Can you imagine meeting someone in real life and learning their name was Savvy Shopper?

(that is a completely made up name, I don’t know a Savvy Shopper and if I do I was not picking on you).

Using monikers like that is okay except they are hard to keep straight. I might link to Savvy Shopper when I was thinking of linking to Shopping Saver. If you prefer you can always use a fake name though if you ever do reveal your real name you might find people have a hard time calling you by any name but your alias. Lola will forever be Lola to me even though I know her real name.

You could also do a combination of your name and your blog name. JD, from I Do Things, is JD at I Do Things. You know her name and you know her blog. Kathy from The Junk Drawer goes by Junk Drawer Kathy sometimes, but still you know her name. You can certainly use your moniker when leaving comments or anywhere you like but if you want to retain a core group of readers, a posse if you will, let them know your real name. It’s difficult to develop a personal relationship when you don’t know a person’s name. MrsBlogalot, I’m talking to you. Please email me with your real name. We’ve known each other for quite a while now and it feels rather one sided.

Don’t Use Comment Auto Responders

It’s nice to thank your commenters, though I think it is unnecessary, but unless you are going to personalize it in some way it is just spam. More email that no one wants. If you are going to take the time to set up an auto responder why not take the time to respond to the commenters comment personally? For me I go back to the blog because I want to see how the host responded to my comment. JD from IDoThings and Kathy from the Junk Drawer have the best ever replies to their commenters, often better than the original post. It keeps people coming back and it is highly entertaining.

The challenge this week is to check your blog to see if you are doing things inadvertently to turn off readers. If you are put an end to those practices and you will see your readership grow exponentially.

***Announcement***

Our very own Kathy from The Junk Drawer has been getting a lot of coverage lately about her Sun Chips video post. The video was shown on The Today Show yesterday and The Wall Street Journal did a piece on her. CNN ran their own coverage of the Sun Chips bag as well as other who sited her in their coverage of this story. Kathy submitted her story to The Daily Show yesterday and it is getting a lot of interest.

Way to go Kathy!!!!!

 Friday Blog Challenge: Stop Annoying Your Readers
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  • http://www.mrsblogalot.com MrsBlogAlot

    Hmmmm…so what happens when you’ve already told someone their real name and…um…they….. forget? (-:

    • Jennifer Brown

      Um, you gently remind them, privately in an email, so they aren’t so humiliated in public.

  • http://www.cardiogirl.net cardiogirl

    (laughs) I never give out my real name since I’d have to leave a trail of dead bodies behind.

    • http://www.junkdrawerblog.com Kathy

      Ah, but I know it! It took me months to get it, but I got it!

      CAPCHA drives me a little batty. I know why people use it, but it’d be nice if the Blogger platform would offer those users something like Akismet that’s available for WordPress users. Do they and people aren’t making use of it?

      Jen, thanks for the mention about my little media buzz about the bag. It’s been a wild ride! I’m so very grateful that so many of our friends left nice comments over at The Daily Show forums and clicked like crazy to get the view count up.

      They haven’t called me, and that’s OK. I got cold feet the next morning. But if they do call, I’m doing it. I’d HAVE to do it! Who wouldn’t?

      • Jennifer Brown

        I love Akismet but could they have given it a harder name to say and spell? I don’t think so.

        The Daily show is going to call you. I know they will.

        • http://www.junkdrawerblog.com Kathy

          And geesh, CAPCHA too! I always think chapcha, captcha, chappa. What?! Stupid!

          You know, for so many views and comments over at The Daily Show, you would think they’d call, right? Nothing so far. Why are they taking story ideas if the kind of response I got didn’t even get a nibble. Interesting.

          If anyone here commented or clicked over there, thank you again. I got all warm and fuzzy inside from the outpouring of support. Really incredible.

    • http://www.tarheelramblings.com Tarheel Rambler

      You mean you real name isn’t Cardiogirl? Oh, the disillusion!

    • Jennifer Brown

      Yes but you let on to some people. Like me!

  • http://www.tarheelramblings.com Tarheel Rambler

    “Having to jump through hoops to leave a comment is the fasted way to not get comments.”

    Last time I ‘fasted’ I lost 15 pounds. Are you trying to say that leaving comments will help you lose weight? Is there a step you’ve left out, because I’ve left thousands of comments without losing even an ounce.

    I agree with you on Captcha. Lack of good options to control spam was a contributing factor when I moved to a self-hosted WordPress blog. I still get some spam, but it’s minimal and people don’t have to deal with figuring out what to type.

    On the auto-responders, I thought at one time that it was a good idea. Then I remembered how much I hate form letters. I really try to respond to most comments, and in a way that is conversational. I hope that people know when they read my reply that I actually read and appreciated the comment. Disqus is my comment tool, and has a couple of hoops to jump through, if you choose to register, but that is an option, not a requirement.

    Great post with valuable things to think about, Jen.

    P.S. Tarheel Rambler is who I’ve become, but I think most people know my real name is Lee. At least the name I tell people. (Shut up, Kathy!)

    • Jennifer Brown

      Thanks for pointing out my typo so gracefully.

      I know your real name.

      I love Disqus because it is a conversation and anyone can get in on it. It doesn’t work for just the blogger and the commenter. People can comment on other people’s comments and have their own little discussion which is really fun.

      • http://howtobecomeacatladywithoutthecats.blogspot.com CatLadyLarew

        Like I can reply to Jen’s comment here and feel like I’m part of the gang! Oh, joy! I’m in with the popular kids now!

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  • http://www.prisqua.com Prisqua

    Yes Prisqua is my real name. I never used to use CAPCHA until I got too many spam and since I have been using CAPCHA the spam has slowed down.

    I do get frustrated when i get it wrong and I always copy my comment before hitting the send button just in case. I actually came across a site the other day where i really wanted to leave a comment but whatever code I entered it was wrong. So I decided to email the owner to let her/him know about the issue on the site: well there was no email address or contact form so at that point I gave up.

    As for the auto response which is recommended by the so called “gurus” I do not like them either, I have enough mail to handle already.

  • http://www.duckandwheelwithstring.blogspot.com Lin

    Hey, I call Lola “Lola” in person too, even when I know her real name! What is with that??

    Oh, and I know CardioGirls’s real name but I have been sworn to absolute secrecy. I am her Alfred to her Batman.

    • http://feeds2.feedburner.com/cardiogirl/jkaK cardiogirl

      Thank you Alfred, I appreciate that.

  • http://nonamedufus.blogspot.com/ nonamedufus

    I couldn’t agree more on the anonymous thing. That just really bugs me that some bloggers are so insecure as to not use their real names. Shame.

  • http://www.thefrugalhousewife.com JT Locke

    What about those annoying “pop-up” ads or the little corner roll down thingy? There was one blog that I was visiting today that had a bar that popped up in the middle of the page while I was reading the post. It was a delayed ad. I clicked out and left. It totally interrupted my thought about a comment I was going to leave.

  • http://www.tdbellenterprises.com/dbblog/ Don

    While I agree with you about Captcha being a problem, it is one of the better tools available for some blogging services to keep the spam out. What else would you use on a “blogger.com” site?

    The rest of your comments I agree with.

    • http://howtobecomeacatladywithoutthecats.blogspot.com CatLadyLarew

      I hate Captcha and all those word verifications that swirl the letters around until you can’t tell what the hell they are. I just stick with Disqus so I can easily respond to people who comments… I love it when people start conversations using Disqus! Oh, and I happily give my real name out to just about anyone… because I’m easy like that!

  • http://amothershood.com Lanita

    I have never been confronted with a math Captcha. Seriously? I’m too pretty for math.

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